How to Ace Your First Interview: 10 Questions Every Host Family Will Ask You (And How to Answer)

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The message just popped up: "We loved your profile! Can we have a video call tomorrow?"

Your heart starts racing. You’re excited, but you’re also terrified. What if they ask something you don't know? What if your English fails you? Relax. I’ve been through this, and I’ve helped hundreds of people get through it.

Host families aren't looking for a perfect person; they are looking for a safe person. They want to know their kids will be okay with you. To help you win them over, I’ve compiled the 10 most common questions and the exact "Winning Scripts" you can use to answer them like a pro.

Why do you want to be an Au Pair?
This is the big one. Don't just say, "I want to travel." That sounds selfish.
"I’ve always loved working with children, and I see this as the perfect way to combine that passion with my desire to learn about a new culture. I want to grow as a person while being a positive influence in your children’s lives."
What experience do you have with children?
Be specific. Even if it’s just family.
"I have spent a lot of time caring for my younger cousins, helping them with homework and organizing outdoor games. I understand the patience required to keep kids engaged and safe."
How would you handle a child having a tantrum?
They are testing your temper.
"I stay calm first. I would try to distract the child or get down to their eye level to understand what's wrong. I believe in positive reinforcement and following the discipline rules you have set in your home."
What are your hobbies?
They want to see if you are active.
"I love [mention a hobby, e.g., swimming or playing guitar]. I’d love to share these interests with your kids—maybe we can have mini-concerts or active afternoons at the park!"
What will you do if you feel homesick?
They want to know you won't quit and run home after a week.
"I know moving abroad is a big step, but I’m a very independent person. I’ll stay busy by exploring the local city, making new friends, and keeping in touch with my family via video calls."
Are you comfortable with light housework?
Be honest but helpful.
"Absolutely. I’m happy to help with the kids' laundry, tidying up their rooms, and preparing simple, healthy meals for them. I view myself as a helping hand for the whole family."
How do you handle emergencies?
Safety first!
"The first thing I would do is stay calm and ensure the child is safe. I would then immediately call you or the emergency services if needed. I always make sure to have all emergency contacts saved on my phone."
What do you expect from us as a host family?
Don't be shy; they want you to be happy too.
"I hope to be treated as a member of the family, not just an employee. I’m looking for a family that is open to cultural exchange and clear communication so we can have a great year together."
What are your plans after the Au Pair year?
They want to see that you have goals.
"I plan to use the skills and the language I’ve learned to [mention a goal, e.g., finish my degree or start a career in international business]. This year is a big part of my personal growth."
Do you have any questions for us?
NEVER say no.
"Yes! What is your favorite thing to do as a family on weekends? And what does a typical day look like for the children?"
Pro-Tip: The "Vibe" Check

During the video call, smile. A lot. Kids are energetic and happy, and parents want someone who matches that energy. If you look bored or scared during the interview, they will think you’ll be bored with their kids.

Your Interview Cheat Sheet (Keep this open!)

Before you hop on that call, make sure:

  • Your background is clean (no messy beds!).
  • You have a pen and paper to take notes.
  • You have read the family's profile one last time.
  • You have your "Winning Scripts" ready to guide you.
Final Thoughts

You’ve got this. You are brave for even trying this, and that bravery will show in your interview. Take a deep breath, be yourself, and remember: they are just as nervous about finding the right person as you are about finding the right family.

Good luck, and go get that "Yes!"

(Note: Have an interview scheduled for tomorrow? Tell me which country the family is from in the comments, and I’ll give you one specific "cultural tip" to impress them!)

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